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Couples / Marriage Counseling
When faced with
difficulties in their relationship many people come to counseling for
assistance. While counseling can be a powerful intervention, there are
important factors that are necessary to help couples bring about positive
change in their relationship. One of these is commitment to the counseling
process. Often problems in relationship have developed over a period of
time, due to maladaptive behaviors and beliefs that need to be addressed.
This is a process that calls for clients to invest time, and energy, with
the assistance of a skilled counselor to be successful.
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My method to
relationship difficulties involves looking both at couple traits
(communication skills, conflict resolution skills, sharing of power within
the relationship) and looking at individual traits (self-esteem,
self-concept, ability to effectively express feelings, assertiveness, and
ability to manage anger appropriately). Individual traits are as important
as couple traits in understanding the dynamics of relationship and in
bringing about more positive interaction.
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Our families are our
first social group. Our parents and caretakers often serve as a model of sorts for our
conceptualization of roles for men and women in relationships.
Interactions with parents and siblings provide a template of sorts for
communication styles and accepted norms. As you relate to others
in adult relationships there is naturally found an expression of these
models and previously learned behaviors. If these learned behaviors are
positive and adaptive they may foster better communication and understanding
with your partner. However, if some of these learned behaviors are
negative, even if they somehow met the needs in the past, they may need
changing. Through counseling we can examine your relationship style and
behavior and make decisions concerning changes that may be helpful to you
and your partner. Working from this philosophy, by examining our learned
concepts of male/female roles within a relationship we may find that there
are expectations we have for our partner, that are in need of discussion and
negotiation.
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concerns for couples may sometimes involve the difficulties encountered
when one partner is struggling with symptoms of depression, anxiety, or
other psychological issues. If your partner is overwhelmed and
finding it difficult to cope with prominent concerns, this may naturally
affect your relationship. Counseling can offer treatment for symptoms of
depression and anxiety and also help clients to learn effective coping,
stress management, and problem solving strategies.
Many couples find that
counseling can enhance their relationship and help them with adjusting to
life transitions.
Whatever may be
causing difficulty for you and your partner: if you feel that counseling may
help you in attaining a more satisfying relationship, please call to discuss
your concerns.
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